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I lost 3rd place to fat-shaming – now I get slammed for being skinny but I agree with the trolls, says Love Island’s Zara McDermott

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Zara McDermott went to Love Island as a confident 21-year-old, happy with her size 10 body and had never counted a calorie in her life.

But that all changed when trolls jumped on holiday snaps taken after she left the villa in 2018 and she was inundated with 1,200 comments branding her a “fat whale” and “unity”.

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Zara McDermott was happy with her size 10 body and had never counted a calorie in her life[/caption]

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Zara was then trolled and inundated with 1,200 comments branding her a “fat whale” and “unity”.[/caption]

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Zara has posted pictures showing her journey to losing weight
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Zara lost three stones through healthy eating and exercise, but was then accused of inducing anorexia and other eating disorders[/caption]

Zara lost three stones – through healthy eating and exercise – but when she posted the results to Instagram she was accused of triggering anorexia and other eating disorders.

Now Zara says those later critics were RIGHT with their before and after pictures.

And she admits she was brought to tears when affected teens told her she was “part of the problem.”

“I was absolutely devastated when I heard that,” she tells The Sun ahead of a new BBC documentary she has been directing about eating disorders.

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While filming Zara McDermott: Disordered Eating, she met teenagers suffering from eating problems that convinced her their actions were making things worse.

She explains: “The whole documentary was eye opening for me, but the teenage patients at the Beautiful Clinic in Birmingham showed me that something that is posted and perceived incorrectly is contributing to the problem.

“That was definitely hard to hear. You wouldn’t be human if you didn’t really bring up that feeling.”

One of the children at the Eating Disorders Clinic told Zara, 25, that her weight loss posts were potentially harmful: “You were previously a healthy weight. You used to look beautiful.


“It anchors the idea that your most important personality trait is what your body looks like.”

Another added: “A lot of girls our age watch Love Island so what you put out there will go straight to them.”

The influencer, who has 1.7million followers on Instagram and also runs food and fitness site A Day With Zara, admitted she was considering leaving social media after hearing her views.

She says, “For a moment I put all the responsibility on my own shoulders and I thought, ‘I don’t want to ever make that mistake again.’

“I didn’t know where to go because I don’t want to hurt anyone and it’s so easy that anything you post will be misperceived.

“I didn’t know if I should move away from social media completely, but I think all I can do is learn to listen and do my best.

“There are so many influencers out there and I’m just a drop in the bucket, but we all have a shared responsibility to take responsibility.”

Hospital admissions for eating disorders have risen 84 per cent over the past five years, according to NHS figures, and nearly 10,000 children started treatment between April and December last year.

In the documentary, Zara highlights the shocking rise in Meanspo sites – where young people sign up to be called “fat” and “disgusting” to “inspire” them to lose weight – revealing it within seconds of the Creating an account on TikTok She was inundated with posts promoting anorexia.

Zara’s attitude towards her body changed overnight after she was attacked by body-shaming trolls.

Despite being a healthy 10.7 pounds when she posted bikini pics from a family vacation, she was hit with a barrage of comments that she said were “99 percent negative.”

“I felt absolutely awful,” she adds.

“I’ve gone from being an innocent 21-year-old who never looked in the mirror or over-analyzing my body to thinking, ‘Should I start seeing myself differently because other people do?’

“It was really hard at 21 and I realized the power and influence of social media on your self-esteem and how it can affect your body image. I’ve been told I’m fat so many times, and there’s a limited number of times you can hear that before you actually start believing it.”

I’ve been told I’m fat so many times, and there’s an infinite number of times you can hear that before you start believing it.


Zara McDermott

For the first time, the former Love Islander – who is dating reality star Sam Thompson, 30 – has taken a look at her diet and lack of exercise and decided to make changes.

She started eating more fruits and vegetables and spent hours exercising.

A year later, after dropping from a size 10 to a size 6, she posted pictures of her slim new frame with the caption, “I can’t believe how far I’ve come.”

Zara adds: “I’ve made some positive changes. I wanted to get fitter and started paying attention to calories in food. And when I started seeing results, I wanted to share that transformation.

“I was really proud of myself and the effort I had shown. It was a bit of a middle finger to all the people calling me fat.

Then came the setback.

At the time, Zara defended the posts, insisting she had just embraced a healthier lifestyle.

But when she met the young people in her documentary, she saw her A Day With Zara fitness posts in a different light.

She said: “I’ve learned not to post what I eat in a day. Allowing people to mimic a day in your life and the calories you eat and giving them accurate readings is extremely damaging.

“The idea of ​​control came up a lot in this film and I now see that they can measure up to that. Often people think that they can get the same results by eating exactly what someone else is eating, but that’s not the case at all.

“We all owe a debt of doing our best on social media, and it’s really easy to sit here and say, ‘I eat my seven fruits and vegetables a day, work out every day, and never eat takeout,'” but it is not TRUE.

“On Friday I cooked a huge batch of brownies and Sam and I mocked our faces. It’s about showing that there’s a balance, because if you show people a ‘perfect’ lifestyle, they’re going to compare themselves to it, and that’s detrimental.”

She’s now ditched the calorie-counting posts, and A Day With Zara features images of iced donuts, peanut butter protein bites and homemade crunchy fries alongside the grueling gym workouts and weightlifting videos.

And while Zara admits she’s edited pictures in the past, she has vowed to keep it real for her millions of followers going forward.

It’s easy to say, “I eat seven fruits and vegetables a day and exercise every day,” but it’s not true. On Friday I cooked brownies.


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In the documentary, Zara meets Lauren from Bucks, whose lockdown workouts turned into an obsession that sent her weight through the floor.

Diagnosed with anorexia, she tells Zara: “My fingers have poor circulation, my hair is falling out and I don’t have the strength to go upstairs. I only see bones now.”

Zara also speaks to Tiwa, who says she started binge eating as a teenager and defecated up to five times a day because “I was as sad as I looked.”

She showed the presenter vile messages from her “meanspo coach,” to whom she sent “body checks” daily for six months when she was 15.

One reads, “You’re a fat ugly pig, you look awful, stop the fuck eating.”

Zara also sets up a TikTok account and after finding weight loss is bombarded with videos promoting anorexia and “thin influencers”.

She now hopes her documentary will encourage social media platforms and other influencers to address the issue head-on.

“We know that social media doesn’t cause eating disorders, but it contributes to and perpetuates eating disorders,” she says.

“I really want influencers to watch this film and I want to create a blueprint that provides clues as to what content may be harmful.

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“If you’ve never experienced it yourself, it’s really hard to put yourself in the shoes of someone who has an eating disorder to know what triggers it.

“But I really hope that this film gets the ball rolling for people to be a little bit more mindful because that can make a big difference for so many young people.”

  • Zara McDermott: Disordered Eating airs November 22 on BBC3.
Zara’s balanced approach included regular exercise
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