DEAR DEIDRE: HOW do I stop myself from fantasizing about my sister-in-law?
I know it’s wrong, but I can’t stop thinking about sleeping with her.
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I am 41 and my wife is 38. We have been married for five years with a two year old daughter and my wife is pregnant.
My sister-in-law is 33. My wife is lovely, but my sister-in-law is something else – curvy, sexy and sassy. I’ve liked her for years.
I love my wife and feel guilty about my feelings for my sister-in-law.
I’ve been avoiding being where she is lately as I’m starting to get aroused when I’m around her.
It’s hard for me to stop thinking about her.
I even used photos of her on social media while having fun.
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How do I lose interest in her?
My wife would be devastated if she knew how I felt about her.
DEIDRE SAYS:It is natural and inevitable to find other people attractive from time to time.
We cannot control our thoughts and feelings, but we can control our actions.
As long as you don’t react to it, you’re not doing anything wrong.
Your wife and sister-in-law will have similar family traits that attract you, but you don’t know the sister as well as your wife does.
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